This is an audio (MP3) recording of a live workshop with a .PDF copy of the handout mentioned in this workshop.

In this workshop you will learn:

• The 10 common reasons kids fight.
• The symptoms of a child having a negative impact from their sibling (and what to do about it).
• Insights into what your children are learning about fighting when you break up the fighting and a better way to respond.
• Learn peace-making alternatives to fighting.

This workshop is a recording of a live workshop and is 5 tracks for a total of 90 minutes. There are 2 pdf handouts included with this workshop.

Track One is 16 minutes and you will learn:

• The sounds of sibling fighting
• How long does the fighting last?
• I don’t hit my kids, why do they hit each other?
• What difference did this type of parenting make in my life with my kids?
• What is the goal of discipline?  What motivates my child’s behavior?  Why do they misbehave when I am being a good parent? What is the effect of yelling on my child’s behavior?
• The top 10 most common reasons why kids fight
• Why is the manner in which we handle this fighting have such a tremendous impact on their lives?
• What is sibling rivalry and how and when does it happen?

Track Two is 14 minutes and you will learn:

• A demonstration of the difference between 2 parenting styles and how the child may interpret the differences, and how their personality may develop based on the parents’ response.
• I will demonstrate the moment that sibling rivalry gets created.
• What are the 3 major signs/symptoms that a child is having a problem with sibling rivalry?
• Why is sibling rivalry potentially more dramatic for the first child?
• What are some ways to decrease the rivalry?
• What are the effects of comparisons on the rivalry?
• Three great ways to talk to kids that decreases or fixes the rivalry.

Track Three is 7 minutes and you will learn:

• Why do you fail when you try to treat your children equally?
• Learn to avoid this circumstance that puts more pressure on kids and creates more bad feeling toward each other.
• What can you do when they are getting in each other's business and driving you crazy?

Track Four is 26 minutes and you will learn:

• Learn a great way to correct or criticize a child and have them receive it well.
• How you and your spouse can use conflict to teach.
• Learn how labels and roles can impact personality development and sibling rivalry.
• The MOST important response to your child when he or she says and does means things to the baby.
• Learn a beautiful way to show your children how they are loved.
• Deb gives an example of the impact of sibling rivalry with older children, and how she responded to the impact it had on her oldest.
• Another magic tool to manage kids bickering and fighting with each other.
• I demonstrate how to handle when 2 kids are fighting over a toy.
• Listen to a real fight!!!  Learn what makes a child feel like hitting their sibling.  What makes a child become a bully or a victim?
• How does your parental response to fighting influence your child’s future relationship decisions?

Track Five is 26 minutes and you will learn:

• Here is an example of a great tool to avoid “crazy parent”.
• Answering questions about the alternative to kids fighting exercise.
• Example of 2-year-old girl and 9-year-old boy fighting and mom’s miraculous success.
• What happens when it doesn’t work?
• What if my child behaves well at school but gives me problems at home?
• Learn 4 more ways to “take the wind out of their sails” when they’re fighting.
• What’s the amazing away to get you out of the middle and teach your children to manage each other in a way that empowers everyone.
• What are the different results of fear-based discipline and loving discipline?
• Should you take sides when they are fighting?
• How you can be a mediator instead of being in the middle of their fighting.
• How you bring peacefulness to your family.
• What if you get annoyed?
• When should I separate them?
• Teaching them to communicate with each other with specific examples.
• Teaching conflict resolution.
• Teach the one that gives in not to sell-out on herself.