Terrible Twos Parenting Success
A parenting success story.
The terrible twos was a struggle for Jayne. As a result, Brandon, her son was defiant, getting into everything, hitting and other typical terrible two behaviors. So, the power struggles were out of control. And, mom was worn out, tired and feeling very frustrated. From what she was learning in the Positive Parenting class, she decided to give Brandon more power around the house by asking him to help her with tasks and giving him responsibilities which he could do “all by himself”. Therefore, she also began spending much more time playing with him on his level. By the 4th week of class, mom found she had created a much calmer, more rewarding relationship with her son. Mom was also surprised to find her son became much less needy of her constant attention because he felt secure, valuable and loved. Great parenting, Mom!
Jayne Smith, RCB Participant, Camarillo
Some tips for Parenting Success to go from Terrible Two's to Terrific Twos:
- Embrace the "Terrific Twos"! This age is a beautiful mix of energy, curiosity, and growth so t's time to guide and nurture, setting the stage for the future. Let's turn challenges like power struggles into opportunities for connection and learning!
- The Terrific Twos aren't terrible at all! They're filled with exploration, experimentation, and boundless energy. It's our role to channel this into positive growth and development. Let's engage and enjoy these precious moments!
- As two-year-olds test boundaries with their newfound curiosity and energy, remember it’s all a part of their development. Let’s focus on guiding and teaching them, while setting up positive parenting patterns for the future.
- Facing "Terrible Twos" challenges? Reframe them as Terrific Twos moments! And it’s a time of immense growth and brain development. Patient guidance now can shape the way we parent and impact our children long into the future.
- Two-year-olds are on a journey of discovery, with boundless energy and curiosity. So, it’s not just a phase but a crucial development stage. Embrace their exploration and provide the guidance they need to thrive and learn.
