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MP3: Handling Sibling Fighting

Learn the most common reasons your children fight and how to deal with it in a much more constructive way.

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This is an audio (MP3) recording of a live workshop with a .PDF copy of the handout mentioned in this workshop.

In this workshop you will learn:

  • The 10 common reasons kids fight.
  • The symptoms of a child having a negative impact from their sibling (and what to do about it).
  • Insights into what your children are learning about fighting when you break up the fighting and a better way to respond.
  • Learn peace-making alternatives to fighting.

This workshop is a recording of a live workshop and is 5 tracks for a total of 90 minutes. There are 2 pdf handouts included with this workshop.

Track One is 16 minutes and you will learn:

  • The sounds of sibling fighting
  • How long does the fighting last?
  • I don’t hit my kids, why do they hit each other?
  • What difference did this type of parenting make in my life with my kids?
  • What is the goal of discipline?  What motivates my child’s behavior?  Why do they misbehave when I am being a good parent? What is the effect of yelling on my child’s behavior?
  • The top 10 most common reasons why kids fight
  • Why is the manner in which we handle this fighting have such a tremendous impact on their lives?
  • What is sibling rivalry and how and when does it happen?

Track Two is 14 minutes and you will learn:

  • A demonstration of the difference between 2 parenting styles and how the child may interpret the differences, and how their personality may develop based on the parents’ response.
  • I will demonstrate the moment that sibling rivalry gets created.
  • What are the 3 major signs/symptoms that a child is having a problem with sibling rivalry?
  • Why is sibling rivalry potentially more dramatic for the first child?
  • What are some ways to decrease the rivalry?
  • What are the effects of comparisons on the rivalry?
  • Three great ways to talk to kids that decreases or fixes the rivalry.

Track Three is 7 minutes and you will learn:

  • Why do you fail when you try to treat your children equally?
  • Learn to avoid this circumstance that puts more pressure on kids and creates more bad feeling toward each other.
  • What can you do when they are getting in each other's business and driving you crazy?

Track Four is 26 minutes and you will learn:

  • Learn a great way to correct or criticize a child and have them receive it well.
  • How you and your spouse can use conflict to teach.
  • Learn how labels and roles can impact personality development and sibling rivalry.
  • The MOST important response to your child when he or she says and does means things to the baby.
  • Learn a beautiful way to show your children how they are loved.
  • Deb gives an example of the impact of sibling rivalry with older children, and how she responded to the impact it had on her oldest.
  • Another magic tool to manage kids bickering and fighting with each other.
  • I demonstrate how to handle when 2 kids are fighting over a toy.
  • Listen to a real fight!!!  Learn what makes a child feel like hitting their sibling.  What makes a child become a bully or a victim?
  • How does your parental response to fighting influence your child’s future relationship decisions?

Track Five is 26 minutes and you will learn:

  • Here is an example of a great tool to avoid “crazy parent”.
  • Answering questions about the alternative to kids fighting exercise.
  • Example of 2-year-old girl and 9-year-old boy fighting and mom’s miraculous success.
  • What happens when it doesn’t work?
  • What if my child behaves well at school but gives me problems at home?
  • Learn 4 more ways to “take the wind out of their sails” when they’re fighting.
  • What’s the amazing away to get you out of the middle and teach your children to manage each other in a way that empowers everyone.
  • What are the different results of fear-based discipline and loving discipline?
  • Should you take sides when they are fighting?
  • How you can be a mediator instead of being in the middle of their fighting.
  • How you bring peacefulness to your family.
  • What if you get annoyed?
  • When should I separate them?
  • Teaching them to communicate with each other with specific examples.
  • Teaching conflict resolution.
  • Teach the one that gives in not to sell-out on herself.